In this piece, I am sharing an experience I had some time ago. I trust that this experience will provide you with valuable insights. Here’s what happened:
At first glance, I thought there was a security situation unfolding around the campus. A high-ranking military officer and his men were approaching the school area, and my mind immediately raced to how I might identify myself if questioned. Luckily, I had a means of doing so.
But as I drew closer, my assumption dissolved. Among the entourage was a senior faculty member I recognized. Soon enough, he stopped to introduce me—first with a playful correction in my mind: “son of nobody…” After a few pleasantries, he presented me as a colleague in the school. Then, with a smile, he introduced the officer as his brother. To my surprise, the officer greeted me warmly, almost as if we had met before.
Quick on my feet, I cheerfully remarked, “I can see the resemblance.” Smart move. In less than two minutes—perhaps even seconds—the entire scene unfolded, with all eyes at the school gate fixed on us.
A moment that lingered
Later, when I settled at my destination, I replayed the scenario in my mind, smiling at how it all came together. The introduction wasn’t random. At different times, I had offered assistance to the faculty member or his project students, sometimes at moments that weren’t convenient for me. Yet, those small acts of kindness had built a bridge.
That day, I realized something profound: warm relationships, regardless of rank or group, always pay off.
Choosing light over division
In the course of my journey, I’ve faced the challenge of belonging to a particular group or caucus. Some tried to entice me into their circle, even at the cost of becoming an enemy to others. But I refuse to be changed. My light will shine faintly for everyone rather than brightly for a select few.
This principle guides me. It’s not about exclusivity—it’s about inclusivity, about being present for people across divides.
The power of reciprocity
One more lesson stood out that day: the importance of reciprocating favors. No matter how small the kindness received, it can be returned in a big way. The senior faculty member did exactly that for me. His thoughtful introduction made my day.
And so, I carry this reminder with me: kindness is never wasted. It circles back, often when you least expect it, and shines a spotlight on the quiet ways we’ve touched others’ lives.
Closing thought
Relationships are the invisible threads that weave our daily lives. When we choose to nurture them with warmth, respect, and reciprocity, they become the very moments that make us smile long after the crowd has dispersed.
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